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Rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme, sepse p\u00ebrve\u00e7 dhun\u00ebs viktimat p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb edhe emocione t\u00eb tjera si faji dhe turpi. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb af\u00ebrsis\u00eb fizike dhe emocionale mes viktimave dhe abuzuesve t\u00eb tyre, edhe viktimat zakonisht k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb q\u00eb rasti t\u00eb trajtohet n\u00eb heshtje dhe t\u00eb mbahet privat. P\u00ebr rrjedhoj\u00eb, shpesh dhuna n\u00eb familje nuk raportohet, gj\u00eb q\u00eb ua mund\u00ebson autor\u00ebve t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj dhune t\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb sjelljen e tyre abuzive.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u00eb gjitha rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje trajtohen me seriozitetin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb lidhje me m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si Policia e Kosov\u00ebs (PK) i trajton rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje, majori Baki Kelani, shef i Zyr\u00ebs p\u00ebr Informim dhe Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me Publikun n\u00eb Policin\u00eb e Kosov\u00ebs, theksoi se q\u00eb nga dita e par\u00eb PK-ja ka trajtuar me seriozitetin m\u00eb t\u00eb madh t\u00eb gjitha rastet e raportuara. \u201cN\u00eb \u00e7do stacion policor rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje trajtohen nga polic\u00eb q\u00eb kan\u00eb kryer trajnime shtes\u00eb p\u00ebr raste t\u00eb tilla. Gjithashtu, gjith\u00e7ka b\u00ebhet n\u00eb bashk\u00ebpunim t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb me Qendrat e Pun\u00ebs Sociale (QPS), mbrojt\u00ebsit e viktimave dhe sigurisht organet p\u00ebrkat\u00ebse t\u00eb drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb. N\u00eb rastet kur f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb si viktima, prania e p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsuesve t\u00eb QPS-ve \u00ebsht\u00eb e detyrueshme\u201d, shtoi major Kelani.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Politika e zero toleranc\u00ebs po jep rezultate<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Sipas t\u00eb dh\u00ebnave t\u00eb PK-s\u00eb, tash e sa vite Kosova ka sh\u00ebnuar rritje t\u00eb vazhdueshme t\u00eb numrit t\u00eb rasteve t\u00eb raportuara t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje. P\u00ebr shembull, n\u00eb vitin 2020 numri i rasteve t\u00eb raportuara t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje ishte 2069, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00eb vitin 2022 numri i rasteve t\u00eb raportuara t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje ishte 2757. Statistika t\u00eb tilla nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koment, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb e qart\u00eb se dhuna n\u00eb familje \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem serioz me t\u00eb cilin p\u00ebrballet shoq\u00ebria jon\u00eb. Rritja e numrit t\u00eb rasteve t\u00eb raportuara, megjithat\u00eb, mund t\u00eb shihet nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim pozitiv pasi jo shum\u00eb koh\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb ton\u00eb, dhuna n\u00eb familje (ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht ndaj grave dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebve) ishte nj\u00eb standard p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht i pranuar. K\u00ebshtu, raportimi i saj nuk u mor kurr\u00eb n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb. Rrjedhimisht, numri i shtuar i rasteve t\u00eb raportuara tregon se njer\u00ebzit, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht viktimat po nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsohen dhe po i besojn\u00eb PKs\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ndaloj\u00eb dhun\u00ebn ndaj tyre apo familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Lidhur me k\u00ebt\u00eb major Kelani theksoi se dhuna n\u00eb familje \u00ebsht\u00eb krim i d\u00ebnuesh\u00ebm dhe shtoi: \u201cQasja e PK-s\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje, p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht vet\u00ebdijesimit ndaj dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn an\u00eb dhe serioziteti n\u00eb trajtimin e rasteve n\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, ka rritur numrin e rasteve t\u00eb raportuara\u201d. M\u00eb tej ai shpjegoi se edhe para se dhuna n\u00eb familje t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihej n\u00eb kodin penal si krim specifik, t\u00eb gjitha rastet e tilla jan\u00eb proceduar n\u00eb kuad\u00ebr t\u00eb klasifikimeve t\u00eb tjera ekzistuese, si: l\u00ebndim trupor, sulm dhe k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim. Kjo d\u00ebshmon se PK-ja gjithmon\u00eb ka zbatuar nj\u00eb politik\u00eb t\u00eb zero toleranc\u00ebs ndaj dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Dhuna nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje e pranueshme<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Sipas psikologut Visar Sadiku ne ende nuk jemi n\u00eb dijeni se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dhuna, se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e suksesshme e nd\u00ebrveprimit me nj\u00ebri-tjetrin dhe nuk kontribuon n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e nd\u00ebrsjella. \u201c\u00c7do veprim q\u00eb n\u00eb thelb denigron, thyen, posht\u00ebron dhe d\u00ebmton personin q\u00eb synojm\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dhun\u00eb. Raportimi i dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje e ndihmon dhunuesin (kryesin e dhun\u00ebs) t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se sjellja e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb e papranueshme, pasi q\u00eb e stimulon vet\u00eb-reflektim. Ne kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr edukim t\u00eb vazhduesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se dhuna nuk mund t\u00eb shihet si nj\u00eb mjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb konsoliduar nj\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb p\u00ebrshtatshme. Nuk ka asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrmes dhun\u00ebs verbale, fizike apo psikologjike t\u00eb mund t\u00eb form\u00ebsojm\u00eb rritjen e bukur t\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije\u201d.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Jepni fund dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje \u2013 RAPORTOJENI!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00eb fund, si major Kelani ashtu edhe z. Sadiku u b\u00ebn\u00eb apel t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve dhe n\u00eb ve\u00e7anti t\u00eb rinjve q\u00eb t\u00eb mos hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb raportojn\u00eb \u00e7do rast t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn kan\u00eb dijeni. N\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit, ka vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndaluar dhun\u00ebn n\u00eb familje dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb duke e denoncuar at\u00eb n\u00eb polici.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Rastet e dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeshme, sepse p\u00ebrve\u00e7 dhun\u00ebs viktimat p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb edhe emocione t\u00eb tjera si faji dhe turpi. P\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb af\u00ebrsis\u00eb fizike dhe emocionale mes viktimave dhe abuzuesve t\u00eb tyre, edhe viktimat zakonisht k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb q\u00eb rasti t\u00eb trajtohet n\u00eb heshtje dhe t\u00eb mbahet privat. 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