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Para nesh \u00ebsht\u00eb shkurti, muaji m\u00eb i shkurt\u00ebr dhe shpesh m\u00eb i ftohti i vitit. Megjithat\u00eb, n\u00eb mbar\u00eb bot\u00ebn ai bart nj\u00eb simbolik\u00eb krejt tjet\u00ebr, ngroht\u00ebsi, but\u00ebsi dhe p\u00ebrkushtim. Arsyeja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm Dita e t\u00eb dashuruarve; duket se pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb periudh\u00eb njer\u00ebzit b\u00ebhen m\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u2019i tregojm\u00eb nj\u00ebri<\/em><\/strong>\u2011<\/em><\/strong>tjetrit but\u00ebsi, mir\u00ebnjohje dhe af\u00ebrsi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Por dashuria n\u00eb shkurt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e rezervuar vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr lidhjet romantike. N\u00eb shum\u00eb kultura dhe komunitete, ky muaj \u00ebsht\u00eb koha kur festohen t\u00eb gjitha format e saj, miq\u00ebsore, familjare, dashuria p\u00ebr veten dhe dashuria p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit p\u00ebrreth nesh. Prandaj, shkurti \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti ideal p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur p\u00ebr ato gj\u00ebra t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb na b\u00ebjn\u00eb v\u00ebrtet t\u00eb ndjehemi t\u00eb dashur: p\u00ebr gjestet q\u00eb zgjasin m\u00eb shum\u00eb se lulet dhe \u00e7okollatat. P\u00ebr ato detaje t\u00eb vogla q\u00eb mbeten.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur dikush t\u00eb merr seriozisht<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Ndjenja m\u00eb e bukur? Kur dikush t\u00eb beson. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse flet p\u00ebr shkoll\u00ebn, miqt\u00eb, notat, dashurin\u00eb apo planet, ajo q\u00eb ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb kur bashk\u00ebbiseduesi\/ja nuk t\u00eb n\u00ebnvler\u00ebson, por t\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cT\u00eb kuptoj. Po e ke t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb.\u201d<\/em> At\u00ebher\u00eb ndodh ai klik i qet\u00eb, ndihesh se t\u00eb shohin, i\/e d\u00ebgjuar dhe i\/e dashur. Q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebria, ndjenja e siguris\u00eb dhe vet\u00eb fakti q\u00eb dikush \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet aty, kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb pesh\u00eb sesa pranojm\u00eb. Kur e di q\u00eb ekziston nj\u00eb person tek i cili mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetesh, e gjith\u00eb bota b\u00ebhet pak m\u00eb e but\u00eb dhe m\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballuar.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur t\u00eb japin hap\u00ebsir\u00eb t\u00eb jesh vetvetja<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb nga gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb t\u00eb bukura q\u00eb dikush mund t\u00eb na dhuroj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb liria, liria p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb vetvetja. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb dikush mb\u00ebshtet dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde p\u00ebr muzik\u00ebn, fizik\u00ebn, dizajnin, piktur\u00ebn apo p\u00ebrgatitjen e \u00ebmb\u00eblsirave; q\u00eb t\u00eb pyet p\u00ebr mendimin t\u00ebnd dhe v\u00ebrtet e d\u00ebgjon; q\u00eb t\u00eb lejon t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh p\u00ebrmes zgjedhjeve t\u00eb tua dhe nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb t\u00eb form\u00ebsoj\u00eb sipas shijes s\u00eb tij\/saj. Kur dikush na pranon pa at\u00eb \u201cpor\u201d, vet\u00ebbesimi yn\u00eb rritet. Dhe pik\u00ebrisht kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb, ndoshta, themeli m\u00eb i fort\u00eb i \u00e7do dashurie.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i\/e but\u00eb me veten<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Shpesh as q\u00eb e v\u00ebrejm\u00eb sa shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrthithim m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si t\u00eb rriturit flasin p\u00ebr veten, p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn dhe p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e tjer\u00eb. N\u00ebse vazhdimisht d\u00ebgjon fjali si: \u201cNuk jam mjaftuesh\u00ebm i\/e mir\u00eb\u201d<\/em> ose \u201cGjith\u00e7ka e b\u00ebj gabim\u201d<\/em>, ai ton b\u00ebhet nj\u00eb tingull q\u00eb t\u00eb jehon gjat\u00eb n\u00eb mendje. Prandaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb shohim nj\u00eb model ndryshe, njer\u00ebz q\u00eb din\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb bukur p\u00ebr veten, q\u00eb din\u00eb t\u2019ia falin vetes nj\u00eb gabim dhe q\u00eb nuk e matin jet\u00ebn me nj\u00eb p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebri t\u00eb paarritshme. T\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb hapur praktikojn\u00eb but\u00ebsin\u00eb ndaj vetes, n\u00eb fakt na tregojn\u00eb se si duket nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie e sh\u00ebndetshme me mendimet tona.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur nuk ke pse t\u00eb jesh i\/e p\u00ebrsosur q\u00eb t\u00eb jesh mjaftuesh\u00ebm i\/e mir\u00eb<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Sot pothuajse gjith\u00e7ka matet me rezultate, nota, medalje, gara, praktika apo projekte. Pastaj shfaqet dikush q\u00eb t\u00eb thot\u00eb: \u201cE r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb u p\u00ebrpoqe.\u201d<\/em> Dhe papritmas di\u00e7ka brenda teje qet\u00ebsohet. Kur t\u00eb rriturit e theksojn\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjen, e jo vet\u00ebm \u201cfitoret\u201d, m\u00ebson se nuk ke pse t\u00eb jesh i\/e p\u00ebrsosur \u00e7do her\u00eb. Kupton se n\u00eb proces ka vend p\u00ebr gabime, r\u00ebnie, pauza dhe p\u00ebrpjekje t\u00eb reja. K\u00ebshilltar\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e din\u00eb se reagimi \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i dobish\u00ebm kur \u00ebsht\u00eb i but\u00eb dhe i sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur e sheh q\u00eb edhe ata luftojn\u00eb dhe se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb normale<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n T\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb shtiren sikur jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrsosur nuk japin siguri, vet\u00ebm e shtojn\u00eb presionin. Por ata q\u00eb pranojn\u00eb se ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kan\u00eb frik\u00eb, se u \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, se kan\u00eb gabuar ose kan\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb keqe, e megjithat\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Kur dikush t\u00eb mbron nga pritshm\u00ebrit\u00eb e tep\u00ebrta<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, por kurr\u00eb m\u00eb i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm se ti. T\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb din\u00eb t\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u201cMund t\u00eb pushosh\u201d<\/em> dhe \u201cNuk duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh gjith\u00e7ka sot\u201d<\/em> na ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojm\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme me ambicien, pushimin dhe kufijt\u00eb.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dashuria shpesh shihet te njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb, t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb lejojn\u00eb t\u00eb jesh vetvetja.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":8805,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lifestyle"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8804"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8804\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8806,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8804\/revisions\/8806"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8805"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/magazineforyou.com\/1\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}